Do I Bring a Gift? Party Etiquette Host/Hostess Gift Ideas

It is customary in my culture to never enter a house empty handed. Whether it is a box of candy, chocolate bar or bottle of wine, we make sure we have something for the head of the household. However, not everyone may think this is the way it should be. I understand. On the other hand, what if you were invited to a party, say a surprise birthday party in honor of someone else at someone's house, do you get something only for the guest of honor, for the host or both? Answer: BOTH.

Why both you may ask? Obviously, you would get something for the guest of honor. On the other hand, the person hosting the party is providing their home, time and plain hosting, a gift shows that appreciation. Ultimately, it is just not proper etiquette to enter someone's house emptyhanded.

So what kind of gift of "appreciation" do you bring for the host or hostess? Here are a couple of ideas for the next time you are invited to a party in someone's honor, or maybe you are just invited over someone's house:

1. Box of chocolates. There are many different kinds/brands of chocolates that you can buy. However, don't run to your nearest Walgreen's or CVS for a quick purchase. Instead, be mindful of what the box of chocolates may imply when you give them to the host. You can never go wrong with Godiva chocolates, Ferraro Rocher, or some exotic foreign concoction. Websites like 1-800-Flowers make it easy for us to select the perfect hostess gift because not only do they sell flowers, but also a variety of chocolates from around the world!

2. Bottle of wine. A bottle of red, white, rose, or whatever kind is another perfect gift for both the host and hostess. This article in VinePair will help make your decision of what kind to bring much easier. Salute!

3. Flowers. Everyone enjoys getting flowers! It's that one thing that many of us seldom splurge on. Receiving flowers brightens anyone's day. A bouquet of beautiful roses or a seasonal bunch is the perfect gift for your host. Kroger has a beautiful selection and great prices. Another place to purchase a beautiful bunch of flowers or arrangement is Sam's Club.

4. Gift Basket. We may think that gift baskets are only available during the holidays. Fortunately, they are available year round! Your local specialty grocery store usually has them available for purchase. If they don't, they can be ordered to fit your taste. Try places like Whole Foods and Kroger for gift basket arrangements.

Whatever the occasion you are invited to, make sure that you follow proper guest etiquette by bringing a gift for the host or hostess. In deciding what to bring, make sure it looks perfect and stylish when you give it to them. Nothing says "thank you" like a gift that's wrapped or presented in perfection. Remember to have fun, be entertaining and be stylish!

'Tis the Season for Stylish Entertaining

Invitations

It's that time of year! The holiday season. Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanza or your own special celebration, you might be asking yourself, "what can I do differently this year?" Answer: throw a themed holiday party!

It is only natural to think of themed parties for occasions such as birthdays or Halloween, and not for Christmas. True this is "out of the box" thinking for such an event, but why not? Instead of your traditional Christmas cookie party, elephant gift exchange or ugly sweater party, throw a party with a specific theme for the holiday, only with a twist, it's stylish!

So what kind of stylish themed holiday party can you throw? Here a few ideas:

White Christmas Table Setting

1. White Christmas: everything from your invitations to the food you serve is white themed and/or has a white component to it. Send invitations that are white which can include the accent color of your choosing. Shutterfly and Snapfish are a couple of places you can go to make your invites. Make sure that you indicate on your invites that it is a white Christmas theme and that guests need to wear white. Obviously, all the decorations for the event are white as is the table setting and tableware. Crate & Barrel, Pier 1, Macy's and Home Goods are excellent places to help with the decorating and putting it all together.

Homemade Paper Angel Doilies

Nutcracker available at Macy's

2. Nutcracker: almost everyone has a nutcracker as Christmas decoration in their house, so why not throw a nutcracker-themed party!? This ballet classic will sure to amaze and intrigue your guests once they get their invitations! Set the stage with angels made of glitter paper, doilies, and pipe cleaners for your centerpieces, mantle decor, or cake toppers.  What's a Nutcracker party without a ballerina? Bake cupcakes and top them with these ballerina toppers available on Amazon. Just like the ballerina, the Nutcracker is a must. Macy's sells beautiful nutcracker figurines that you can display throughout your home or you can use as the statements pieces for your table(s). 

The Grinch Theme Table 

3. It's the Grinch: what's Christmas without the Grinch! Set the stage with green, red and white as your main color theme and then accent with themes from the movie. Welcome your guests to your "Whoville" with creative yard decorations that can be purchased on Etsy.com. Once they are inside your home, they think they've entered Whoville. Do this by decorating your home with red, green and white colors along with scenes/decor from The Grinch movie. Set the tone by playing the Grinch music in the background and providing all the touches what makes the Grinch a special story. 

The Grinch Party Invitations

These are just a few ideas to help you begin your holiday planning. Whichever theme you chose, White Christmas, Nutcracker, The Grinch or you were inspired by these, the details and fine touches you put into putting it all together is what will make your party not only fun and memorable but stylish! Happy entertaining, Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Happy Hanukkah and Kwanza and make it fun and stylish!